Dear Zane,

Ugh where don I begin?? My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now.. One he is the first white guy I've ever dated. He so sweet and sensitive. The sensitive part drives me up the wall kuse he will legit cry at the drop or if he thinks I'm talking about us breaking up. I have a one year old son and omg he is so great to my son which is why I think I settled. But what bothers me the most is he don't take care of his own son and I have strongly e ... xpressed my opinion about that he says he is going to do better so that turned me off ...another sex is horrifying his dick is legit 4-5 inches and I think 5 is pushing it... His head game in the beginning was on point but I started getting tired of that and I keep telling myself no cheating but my body is dying for attention a back massage or something.. I have to complain jus for him to rub my feet after working two jobs all day... What kinda mess is that.. I'm to the point now where I'm ready to tell him it's time but the only thing stoping me is my son... Him and my son are two peas in a pod he is the only man he knows as his father and as silly as it sounds I don't want to confuse my son... So what do you think I should do? Feel free to post to your fb page I need the hard truth... I follow you so I will be reading comment... Thanks again for taking the time out to read this discount wedding collections for a outdoor beach wedding

MY RESPONSE: Here is the thing: he is not your son's father. Plus, you already know that he is not a good father to his own child so his connection with your son ends with you. Outside of the sex issue, you want someone attentive and he is not that either. Less than a year in is a good time to come to the conclusion that you are not compatible. It has nothing to do with race but different needs and desires in a relationship. The hard truth is that you need to break it off and move on with your life and not allow your son to get attached to other men as he grows. At one, he will get over it and just notice that he is no longer around. Good luck.